THE APPROACH
Insight isn’t the same as change. But it’s where change starts.
Maybe adulthood looks different from what you imagined. Work is going well, but intimacy feels uncertain. You are questioning masculinity, sexuality, independence, or whose version of success you have been pursuing. Coming of age can happen in your 20s, 30s, 40s, and beyond.
Depth therapy makes room to explore the life you want and the patterns that make it hard to live. My work is relational, psychodynamic, psychoanalytic, and attachment-focused, with EMDR and IFS when helpful. I work with men, young adults, LGBTQ+ clients, and couples on identity, relationships, sexuality, trauma, anxiety, and major transitions.
BEFORE WE MEET
Questions worth sitting with
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What do you keep choosing that you say you don’t want?
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Whose approval are you still working for?
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What would you have to feel if you stopped being busy?
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Which part of your story do you tell the fastest?
If one of these landed, that’s usually where we start.
WORKING TOGETHER
How the work unfolds
01 A free 15-minute call
We talk about what brings you here and whether we’re a good fit. No pressure, no commitment.
02 The first few sessions
We map your history, the patterns that keep repeating, and what you want from the work.
03 Finding the thread
We follow what repeats in your life and in the room. That’s usually where the real material is.
04 Ongoing work
Weekly therapy, or psychoanalysis three times a week, depending on how deep you want to go.
OFFERINGS & FEES
Psychotherapy · weekly · $225
Depth-oriented therapy, with short-term trauma work (EMDR) when it helps.
Psychoanalysis · 3x weekly · $180/session
Slower, freer, and aimed at the pattern itself.
Couples therapy · 50 min · $275
For the same fight in different clothes. LGBTQ+ couples welcome.
For clinicians · consultation & supervision
Case consultation for licensed therapists; supervision toward licensure in CA, NY and FL.
All sessions by secure video for people in California, New York or Florida. Out-of-network; superbills provided.
ABOUT
Hi, I’m Evan
I’m a licensed psychotherapist and clinical supervisor in California, New York and Florida. I practice psychoanalysis and short-term trauma therapies, train at Newport Psychoanalytic Institute, and teach mindfulness. Before this work I spent years in India studying religion and music, then ran a sheep farm in Tennessee.
I’m most interested in the gap between the life people are living and the one they actually want, and in the parts of people that don’t fit a diagnosis. Sessions are direct, curious, and occasionally funny.
BEGIN
Start with fifteen minutes.
A free 15-minute call to talk about what’s going on, what you’re hoping for, and any questions. No commitment.
Online therapy for Los Angeles, New York City and anywhere in California, New York and Florida.